Caught myself buttering joints after the mortar set, 4 years in
I was laying a garden wall in Austin last month and realized I'd been smearing mortar on dry joints the whole time, just tidying the look instead of actually bedding the bricks. A passerby who used to lay stone in the 70s pointed at my trowel and asked why I was frosting a cake, that's when the light bulb hit. Anyone else have a habit that took an outsider calling it out to fix?
The muscle memory thing is wild because your hands keep doing the old motion even after your brain knows better, kinda like how I still reach for a corded drill sometimes. What got me was realizing the frosted look actually hides bad bedding, so it never looks wrong from the outside until something shifts.