My panic over an unofficial idol photo in our fan group

I was just checking our K-pop chat when someone posted a sneaky picture from a private fansite. It showed my bias out shopping, and I knew it was kinda wrong to look. But I clicked on it fast, and then I felt bad right after. I spent like twenty minutes thinking if I should say something or just keep quiet. I finally typed a message asking if we should report it, and everyone got quiet. Now I'm that person who questions every update before sharing it. How do you even handle stuff like that without sounding preachy?

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the_val8h ago

Feel you so hard on this. I clicked on a fansite pic from a secret event last month and felt bad right after. Spent a whole weekend thinking if I should say something in the chat, and when I did, some people got mad. Now I just tell the mods quietly instead of talking about it in the group, much easier.

wendysmith5h ago

Smart move telling mods, @the_val. Group chats can blow up over small stuff lol. Like last week, someone posted a leaked clip and half the chat called them out while the other half shared it. Messy. Direct messages to mods cut out the public fight. Saves everyone the headache and keeps the group chill.