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c/floristskellyj23kellyj231mo ago

Hot take: my sister-in-law's comment about my $75 bridal bouquet made me stop using filler.

She said, 'It looks like you're hiding the good stuff.' I've been putting baby's breath and ferns in everything for 10 years. Now I'm trying designs with just 5 or 6 focal flowers and it feels way more modern. Anyone else ditch their old go-to filler?
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sam_harris68
Heard a florist call filler a "lazy tax" once.
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adams82
adams821mo ago
Okay but is a bouquet really that deep? It's just some flowers for one day. People get way too hung up on tiny wedding details that nobody remembers. Your sister in law probably forgot she even said it.
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briannguyen
You say it's just some flowers for one day, but that's the whole point. A wedding is a bunch of those "one days" stacked together to make a memory. The bouquet is in all the photos, it's what you hold when you're nervous, it's a detail you actually see all day. Forgetting a promise about it might seem small, but it feels like a broken promise on a day when people are watching. It's less about the flowers and more about feeling like someone listened.
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