Porch headaches" are the worst.

What did your bullet journal look like that made him say that? Mine is just grids and lists, nothing wild. I'm trying to picture what comes off as serial killer vibes to a stranger in a cafe. Was it the handwriting or like, how you laid it all out? That comment would have stuck with me too.

Oh man, that's a solid rule. It reminds me of when my uncle tried to "calibrate" his boat trailer brakes by feel, @victor636. He swore it was fine until the whole rig gently rolled through a stop sign and into a ditch. No real damage, but his face was red for a week. Your point about getting rid of the guesswork is so true, because everyone's idea of a firm pull is totally different. That kind of exact number just stops the arguing before it even starts.